@brittarnhild
I don´t know about you. In my life there are quite a few favorite men though. Take this cute little fellow for instance, a grønnfink, or an European greenfinch as wikipedia tells me his English name is. His wife, Mrs Greenfinch is all brown and kind of boring. The Mister himself has a vivid greenyellow colour, making him shine like the sun.
There are many of then in my garden these days. Patiently they sit there, eating sunflowers seed for hours.
If another bird comes and want some seeds, Mr Greenfinch just flaps with his wings and then he has the meal all by himself again.
Quite rude, but still, he is a favorite :-)