@brittarnhild
I am sitting here in The Blue Garden, watching the peonies which are ready to bloom any day now. Ants are running up and down the pregnant bulbs, busy with their business. When I first saw this I wondered what the ants were doing, if they were destroying the flowers. I tried to remove them, without luck. Later I learned that the ants are important. Somehow they are essential for the blooming. Don´t ask me how.
There have been a few ants in my life laterly. I have tried, without luck, to remove them. But now I wonder. May be they are essential for my blooming. May be they are my beauty´s helpers.